Need To Know Advice for Men Going To Your First Rendezvous

First impression of you counts when meeting your prospective new companion for the first time. Be yourself, don't appear to be overly self-assured and uncaring.

Personal Appearance

Make sure you have no unpleasant body odour, but don't overdo it with colognes and deodorants. Have a fresh breath and don't smell of cig smoke if you smoke. When choosing your wardrobe for your rendezvous, choose clothes that make you feel confident and are suited for the meeting place, for example, smart casual ironed long pants and nice shirt for a restaurant. Nice jeans and polo shirt to meet at a coffee shop or hotel. Clean hair and finger nails are important too.

Phone Etiquette

In today's society a mobile phone can be a security item when we are meeting new companions. Be discreet and put your phone on silent or vibrate when dining, and if you need to answer the mobile, make an excuse like going to the toilet and make your phone call while in the toilet. This way you don't appear rude and not committed to entertaining your companion.

Romance on your first rendezvous

In today's society, it can be confusing for a man to know just what kind of courting behaviour is appropriate on a first date. Do you bring flowers and chocolate, open her car door, pull out her chair to sit down, compliment her on her appearance? Well, we at The Zodiac Companions Agency can guide you using the information she gave with her profile.
When giving her any sort of compliment, deliver it with sincerity. Focus on making your companion feel special by being attentive, but not invading your companions personal space. Etiquette suggests that, if you have requested the rendezvous, that it is polite for you to pay.

Communication

There are no right or wrong subjects to discuss on your first rendezvous. But it is advisable to keep to safe and neutral subjects. Do not be derogatory about experiences with past companions. With the knowledge about your companion that you receive from us, you will find it easier for you to communicate with confidence, and not offend your companion. When we feel comfortable with another person, conversation flows naturally, so don't force it. Show respect by really listening to your companion and being able to change topics of conversation if your companion becomes quiet, uncomfortable, or her body language becomes closed. Remember your first rendezvous is not an interrogation about who you are, so only divulge what you feel comfortable with.

Choosing a meeting place

It is very important to choose the right place for your first rendezvous.
Some points to consider:-

Choose a place where music and background noise is not too intrusive.
Pick place that is not over-crowded, but have people around to give a sense of security.
Start with a place where you don't have to put on airs and graces.
Don't be frightened about eating what you like in front of your companion. If you choose spicy foods, bring a breath freshener.
If you drink alcohol, be considerate of your companion's opinions about alcohol, and be careful how much you both drink on this occasion, as alcohol can change your behaviour.
If you are thinking about taking your companion to the movies, realise that it is harder to talk and get to know each there.

Concluding the Evening

Well, hopefully the evening has proceeded successfully, and it's time to part. You will have realized if there is chemistry between you, and if you want to meet again. This is where a lot of new acquaintances become confused if you have had a good time, and have exchanged phone numbers and you promise to ring, and you don't follow through. Be honest about how you feel and don't make promises you have no intention of keeping. Kissing and cuddling at the end of the night is instinctive and you know how far you can go on this first rendezvous after listening to your companions opinions about a sexual relationships. Don't try to complicate the beginning of this relationship with sex, as this can overshadow getting to know the person first, and who they really are.

Need To Know Advice for a Women Going To Her First Rendezvous

Personal Appearance

Probably the biggest decision any woman has to make about a first rendezvous is what to wear.

When choosing your clothes choose colours that compliment your skin tone, and wear clothes that are comfortable and you feel confident in.
Make a real effect to have your hair and make up at your best.
Wear a new outfit. If you choose to wear black for the meeting, it is very lucky to wear red underwear.
When it comes to your underwear, choose matching bra and undies that make you feel feminine.
Wear footwear appropriate to the occasion.
Make sure you have no unpleasant body odour but don't overdo it with colognes and deodorants.
Have a fresh breath and don't smell of cigarette smoke.

Communication

Trying to communicate while suffering first rendezvous nerves can be hard. If you are nervous try not to ramble on with trivial conversation. Remember your companion is nervous too, and sometimes it is you who has to put your companion at ease by introducing a topic of interest to both of you. You can both talk about each other's pasts, but don't let the subject dominate the evening. When you are talking, watch your companion's body language, as this can give you a true indication whether or not your companion is interested or cares about what you are saying.

Signs to look for are;

Does he make eye contact when replying?
Are your companion's arms crossed across the chest?
Are your companions arms crossed behind the head?
When he replies, does he cover his mouth with his hand?
Is your companion's attention wandering, as displayed by a roving gaze?
Does your companion lean closer when you lean towards him?
Try not to fidget. You need to look and feel relaxed, because your companion will pick up on your nervous energies.

Be yourself when choosing from the menu. Eat how you would normally eat with friends and family, and don't create false impressions. If you choose spicy food, have breath freshener with you unless your companion eats the same food as you do.

Sometimes touching your companion occasionally throughout the rendezvous can put both of you at ease.

Phone

In today's society your mobile phone is your security when meeting a new companion. Don't answer your phone in front of your companion. If you have organized a friend to ring through the rendezvous, tell them that, if they ring, and your phone is off, the rendezvous is going great. Should you need a reason to leave, make an excuse, such as going to the toilet, then ring your friend to help you to be able to leave early.